[01:14] <+Govindia> Pengu I need to chat with you once things are settled.
[01:15] <+Pengu> oh?
[01:15] <+Govindia> yes
[01:17] <+Pengu> May I ask what about?
[01:19] <+Govindia> will explain later. g2g. HannahB please see query
[01:20] * Govindia is now known as GovindianMobileOperations
[01:25] <
@HannahB>
[01:25] <+Zaphyr> HannahB: 05:13Z <Govindia> tell HannahB she has query
[01:26] <
@Wintermoot> More than likely he wants to talk to yet another person to talk to me about unbanning him from Civ games
[01:27] <
@HannahB> Nah, he wants me to add him on Facebook
[01:27] <
@Wintermoot> Well, Civ games that I host...not all Civ games ever...
[01:27] <+Pengu> I was assuming it had to do with the PM I sent you and him.
[01:27] <
@Wintermoot> To my knowledge you're about the only person in the region he hasn't tried to get to talk to me, Pengu
[01:28] <+Pengu> Nah, he's tried.
[01:28] <+Pengu> and he tried that with me as well Hannah.
[01:28] <+Pengu> Well, he's tried getting me to talk to you about feeling ignored in Civ.
[01:29] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Wintermoot stop being passive aggressive and unban me on civ please
[01:29] <+Pengu> Aren't you supposed to be working?>
[01:29] <+Pengu>
[01:29] <
@Wintermoot> Govindia, please quit harassing me and attempting to get others do so for you.
[01:29] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you overreacted and need to admit you were wrong
[01:29] <+Pengu> this again.
[01:29] * +Pengu sits down for popcorn.
[01:30] <+GovindianMobileOperations> four weeks is too much and it has been two already
[01:30] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you are being unreasonable Wintermoot
[01:30] * +Pengu offers HannahB some.
[01:30] <
@Wintermoot> I have already responded to your perceived grievences and I'm telling you your behaviour is unwelcome. I will consider further behaviour
like this harassment.
[01:30] <+GovindianMobileOperations> You're being emotional and your judgment is clouded.
[01:30] <+Pengu> ...
[01:30] * +Pengu refrains from commenting.
[01:30] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i have a right to complain that your ban is overly harsh
[01:31] <+GovindianMobileOperations> while you make no attempt to help new players to the game and foster a sense of elitism
[01:31] <+Pengu> I take that back.
[01:31] <
@Wintermoot> You don't have the right to pester me for weeks on end, and then attempt to get others to when I won't talk to you.
[01:31] <+Pengu> I don't know the details of the ban, and I apologize for saying this Gov, but you're really the last person to tell someone they're being emotional and have clouded judgment.
[01:32] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you don't have a right to complain about the behavuour of others when you are passive aggressive and rudely ignore someone for two weeks
[01:32] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and not respond to a reasonable PM
[01:32] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Even Weissreich pointed out you are overreacting
[01:32] <+GovindianMobileOperations> when he was here
[01:33] <
@Wintermoot> I have a right not to respond to your harassment after I have already addressed you about this at least three times.
[01:33] <+GovindianMobileOperations> a four week ban is unreasonable. Wintermoot overreacted as much as I did Pengu but he never admits wrongdoing
[01:33] <+Pengu> Technically...if he instituted a ban of any sorts, he's not obligated to respond to anything when he makes a judgment. That's completely up to him if he so chooses.
[01:33] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i didn't harass you and you never responded at all. you were passive aggressive and that is indirect rude behaviour
[01:34] <+GovindianMobileOperations> judgments should.be made on logic not emotion
[01:34] <
@Wintermoot> I've already responded to you. It's not my fault that you aren't happy you didn't get your way.
[01:34] <+GovindianMobileOperations> his judgment was based on emotion
[01:34] <+Pengu> And you shouldn't get overly emotional about a ban on something like a game.
[01:34] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Wintermoot you never responded to my PM so that is not true
[01:35] <
@Wintermoot> I have made it clear that I won't unban you before the four weeks are up.
[01:35] <+Pengu> The more you get upset about it and try to get him to change it, the less likely he'll do anything.
[01:35] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Pengu I havr a right to be upset when Wintermoot never admits to overreacting
[01:35] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and he believes he can do no wrong
[01:35] <+Pengu> In his mind, he wasn't overreacting. So why would he admit to it?
[01:35] <+GovindianMobileOperations> he never admits to being wrong when he knows he is.
[01:35] <+Pengu> Gov, we've talked about this.
[01:35] <+Pengu> Wrong in that sense is relative.
[01:36] <+Pengu> What is wrong to you isn't to him, and vice versa.
[01:36] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i admit at least when i am wrong. Wintermoot does not
[01:36] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Four weeks is unreasonable. Two weeks is reasonable and logical.
[01:36] <+Pengu> Actually, I've seen him admit his mistakes when he does make them.
[01:36] <+Pengu> Well, as I said. I don't know the details of the ban or why it was instituted, so I can't argue whether it was/wasn't reasonable.
[01:37] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Wintermoot has promised to stop being passive aggressive. That means if I send him a PM, he needs to respond to it in a timely and civil manner atvall times and never ignore anyone
[01:37] <+Pengu> But going at him about it nonstop isn't going to fix things.
[01:37] <+Pengu> Gov...
[01:37] <Evelynx> plus like WM hosts them right.. >.>. I've suggested this before gov, why don't you just host your own game
[01:37] <+Pengu> It's not that he's being passive agressive.
[01:37] <+Pengu> it's that you're being OVERLY aggressive.
[01:37] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i have patiently waited two weeks.
[01:37] <Evelynx> gov you have been being asked to be unbanned the whole two weeks.. >.>
[01:38] <Evelynx> that's not patience
[01:38] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Pengu he is being passive aggressive. he never responded to my PMs and is active here and elsewhere
[01:38] <+Pengu> And what Evelynx said. He banned you from playing with them. He didn't ban you from the entire game. Why not host your own?
[01:38] <+Pengu> Gov, don't ignore what I just said.
[01:38] <+GovindianMobileOperations> no one else will play with me
[01:38] <+Pengu> It's not that he's being passive aggressive.
[01:38] <+Pengu> if that you're being overly so.
[01:38] <+Pengu> and people don't respond to that.
[01:38] <+GovindianMobileOperations> everyone will only play with Wintermoot
[01:38] <Evelynx> me and hannah played with you
[01:39] <+GovindianMobileOperations> wintermoot promised to be direct with me at all times and he is not
[01:39] <+Pengu> Gov...
[01:39] <Evelynx> honestly i've never been invited to play with you
[01:39] <+Pengu> there are times for being direct
[01:39] <
@Wintermoot> There's a difference between 'direct' and 'responding to harassment'
[01:39] <+Pengu> and there are times when you feel someone is trying to back you into a corner.
[01:39] <+Pengu> When you constantly go at someone, you make them feel the latter.
[01:39] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i have. you turned me down twice before Evelynx before you olayed with me
[01:39] <+GovindianMobileOperations> played*
[01:39] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Wintermoot it is not harassment.
[01:39] <Evelynx> uh that was the first game i played with anyone from the region gov
[01:39] *
@Wintermoot goes to look up the regional laws
[01:40] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you need to learn to communicate and stop being passive.
[01:40] <+Pengu> And we've talked about this as well Gov. We talked about it before and after the revocation.
[01:40] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and people have understood how they have to communicate with me
[01:40] <
@Wintermoot> Speaking of which, doesn't hte laws page look a little nicer? ^.^
[01:40] <+Pengu> When you badger someone like that, it is harrassment, no matter whether they're choosing to respond or not.
[01:40] <+GovindianMobileOperations> passiveness is immature and does not work with me
[01:41] <
@Wintermoot>
http://wintreath.com/index.php?part=law[01:41] <+Pengu> And badgering over a game is equally immature.
[01:41] <+Pengu> Don't be the pot and call the kettle black.
[01:41] <+Pengu> and it does look nicer Mooty.
[01:41] <+GovindianMobileOperations> ignoring someone is rude and i have been waiting for weeks for a response. he never responds to my PMs in a timely manner but he responds to everyone else's
[01:42] <+Pengu> As I said Gov: He has no obligation to respond to you after he makes a decision like that.
[01:42] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Wintermoot said a week ago he would respond back to me
[01:42] <+GovindianMobileOperations> he didn't
[01:42] <+GovindianMobileOperations> he went back on his word
[01:42] <+Pengu> He's not obligated to hear your complaints over his decision, nor is he obligated to overturn his decision.
[01:42] <+Pengu> Did you actually leave him completely alone after he said that to you?
[01:42] <+Pengu> and I mean, COMPLETELY alone?
[01:43] <+GovindianMobileOperations> yes.
[01:43] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i didn't bother him about the subject
[01:43] <+Pengu> You didn't bother him in more PMs, casually make queries, have Zaphyr save messages, or say his name constantly in the chat?
[01:43] <+GovindianMobileOperations> to the best of my.memory
[01:43] <+GovindianMobileOperations> not about that
[01:44] <
@Wintermoot> After I told him I couldn't deal with him right now, he stopped for like a day or two
[01:44] <+Pengu> And did he actually PROMISE to get back to you, and not just say "I'll get back to you on that." ?
[01:44] <+GovindianMobileOperations> he said he'll get back to me last weekend
[01:44] <
@Wintermoot> I never said t hat
[01:44] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and i said ok
[01:44] <+Pengu> But did he promise it?
[01:44] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and he said thank you for understanding
[01:45] <+GovindianMobileOperations> the full logs are on the desktop
[01:45] <+Pengu> If he just casually said it, then he didn't go back on anything. Unless he specifically promised you that he'd get back to you, then he didn't give you his word, and didn't go back on anything.
[01:45] <+Pengu> And if he said it casually, then he still wasn't obligated to give you a response back.
[01:46] <+Pengu> It sucks, but that's how it goes.
[01:46] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i consider it his word when he says he'll get back to me
[01:46] <+Pengu> Then that's your own fault for considering it such.
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:26] <
@Wintermoot> I'm going to be honest, Govindia...I just can't put up with you right now.
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:27] <+Dyr> Makes sense. It's always surprised /how many/ professions are out there, work in so many industries that you wouldnt notice normally
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:27] <+Govindia> Well it's been days since I sent the suggestion. So you had at least a couple days to respond. I hope you will respond sometime soon this week. Thank you Wintermoot.
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:27] <+Dyr> I'm* always
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:27] <+Wuufu> That makes sense Wintermoot, sometimes it's good to try new things… it's a shame there isn't much in your area for what you want to do
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@Wintermoot> [16:27] <+Wuufu> Agreed, Dyr
[01:46] <
@Wintermoot> [16:27] <
@Wintermoot> Thanks for your understanding, Gov.
[01:47] <+Pengu> So, reading that correctly, he didn't even say he'd get back to you.
[01:47] <+GovindianMobileOperations> it seemed implied
[01:47] <+Pengu> ....
[01:47] <+GovindianMobileOperations> either way i gave him ample space
[01:47] <+Pengu> So you ASSUMED he'd message you?
[01:47] <+GovindianMobileOperations> it was implied imo
[01:47] <+Pengu> Implied means shit, Gov.
[01:48] <+Pengu> If he didn't say it point blank, he wasn't obligated in the least to message you back at all.
[01:48] <+Pengu> For you to get pissed at him for not messaging you when he didn't even say it is quite childish.
[01:49] <+GovindianMobileOperations> I'm not pissed. i am irritated he gets emotional and bans me for a long time from his games, never attempts to practise with me but he does with Reon and Evelynx
[01:49] <+Pengu> The wording is irrelevant Gov.
[01:49] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and doesn't think clearly about this
[01:49] <+Pengu> The point is you're getting pissy with him about a message you ASSUMED he was going to send because it was "implied."
[01:49] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and when i attempt tonbe reasonable with him, he doesn't show any sign of reason or willingness to resolve this
[01:50] <+Pengu> When in reality, he didn't say anything in the very least to even give a good assumption that he'd get back to you on anything.
[01:50] <
@Wintermoot> It's resolved, you can return to the game in a few weeks...or host your own.
[01:50] <+GovindianMobileOperations> no that's not the resolution. it is unreasonable.
[01:50] <
@Wintermoot> Or play a game someone else hosts
[01:50] <+GovindianMobileOperations> two weeks is enough
[01:51] <+Pengu> If anyone is getting emotional and not thinking clearly about this, it's you. You're pissed he made his decision, you're pissed he won't overturn it, and you're pissed because you feel like he owes you explanation and apology for his decision, when he doesn't owe you anything.
[01:51] <+Pengu> And it's all over a stupid game.
[01:51] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you should stop being passive and respond to PMs in a reasonable timeframe Wintermoot and admit you were emotional and overreacted
[01:51] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and let me back on next ween as a sogn
[01:51] <+Pengu> Gov, you should stop telling Wintermoot what he is.
[01:51] <+GovindianMobileOperations> sign of reconciliation
[01:51] <
@Wintermoot> The only thing I'm about to do is file a court case for harassment.
[01:52] <+Pengu> And again, he doesn't have to do jack shit. He could even extend the ban if he wanted because you're pushing so much at him about it.
[01:52] <+GovindianMobileOperations> you harassed me with how you overreacted
[01:52] <
@Wintermoot> If that's how you feel, file a court case
[01:52] <+GovindianMobileOperations> and never respond when you promised to never. e passive aggr3ssu e
[01:52] <+Pengu> or he could make it a permanent ban. Do you really want that Gov?
[01:52] * +Pengu (Mibbit@184-78-163-110.war.clearwire-wmx.net) Quit (Quit:
http://www.mibbit.com ajax IRC Client)
[01:52] * mib_oqvcclPengu (Mibbit@184-78-163-110.war.clearwire-wmx.net) has joined #wintreath
[01:52] * mib_oqvcclPengu is now known as Pengu
[01:52] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i want him to be reasonable and to stop thinking with emotion amd to use logic for once
[01:53] * Spock sets mode: +v Pengu
[01:53] <+Pengu> Gov, stop telling him what he needs to do.
[01:53] <+Pengu> Take your own advice.
[01:53] <+Pengu> Stop thinking with emotion, and use logic.
[01:53] <+Pengu> You're trying to continue to back him into a corner to get him to overturn your ban.
[01:53] <+Pengu> In reality, he could ban you from the game permanently AND get a case started against you here because your keep pushing him.
[01:54] <+Pengu> Is that what you really want?
[01:54] <+GovindianMobileOperations> well what do you want me to do to get him to overturn the ban?
[01:54] <+Pengu> Nothing.
[01:54] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i want him to be reasonable and chill for once
[01:54] <+Pengu> Live with a few weeks.
[01:54] <+Pengu> A few weeks is better than a few months, and far better than indefinitely.
[01:54] <+GovindianMobileOperations> It's already been two weeks. if Chanku or anyone else did this he would give them a smaller ban
[01:54] <+GovindianMobileOperations> not the same punishment
[01:54] <+Pengu> No.
[01:55] <+Pengu> Chanku would be worse.
[01:55] <+Pengu> and you know he would.
[01:55] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i always get the harsh punishmemt
[01:55] <+Pengu> Well...as I said once more, I don't know the whole story as to why it exists, but I also know that Mooty doesn't dish bans like that unless it was something bad.
[01:56] <
@Wintermoot> Do you want to know, Pengu?
[01:56] <+Pengu> So if he gave you 4 weeks (and you said you already got through 2, what's 2 more?), then it was obviously something bad.
[01:56] <+Pengu> And yes Mooty, that does tend to help.
[01:56] <+GovindianMobileOperations> look pengu when are you free to talk on skype?
[01:56] <
@Wintermoot> Gov threw a tantrum during and after the last game when someone captured his cities in Civ.
[01:56] <+Pengu> I don't really go on Skype. I just keep it there in case something really important comes up.
[01:56] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i really need to go but i really need to talk to you
[01:57] <+Pengu> Well, if it's anything about asking me to change Mooty's mind, you're out of luck.
[01:57] <
@Wintermoot> Spent virtually the entire game demanding the person give him his cities back, then berated everyone else for not helping, not understanding that we were not in a position to do so.
[01:57] <+GovindianMobileOperations> well skype i feel i have more access to and i need to vent
[01:57] <+GovindianMobileOperations> as I am more often on my phone
[01:58] <
@Wintermoot> Then started flaming, for example, saying this person was "a bigger dick than Chanku".
[01:58] <+GovindianMobileOperations> his idea of flaming is subjective
[01:58] <
@Wintermoot> After the game, he demanded a rule that he not be attacked because he was the 'least experienced player'.
[01:58] <+Pengu> well, I can't promise I'll be on there Gov, you're more likely to get me in Query than on Skype.
[01:58] <+GovindianMobileOperations> not accurate
[01:59] <+Pengu> Well...again, I apologize for saying this, but it does sound like something you'd do. :\
[01:59] <
@Wintermoot> And this is after he had harassed me for weeks over not being aorund for the games, claiming I and others were 'snubbing him'.
[01:59] <+Pengu> and ^ that part...
[01:59] <+Pengu> you were venting to me about that.
[01:59] <+GovindianMobileOperations> they do snub me. i explained how
[02:00] <+Pengu> And Wintermoot explained his side when it came to that as well.
[02:00] <+GovindianMobileOperations> they say they have no time to game with me but hes on skyrim or playing with others
[02:00] <+Pengu> Sometimes people have other things they want to do, Gov.
[02:00] <+Pengu> And you know how much Mooty has been into Skyrim lately.
[02:01] <+GovindianMobileOperations> he can take time to play with others if he can make time to play civ with reon etc
[02:01] <+Pengu> And I'll note that I was also told that a lot of the times you tried joining games that were already in progress.
[02:01] <+Pengu> which happens, and you just wait patiently until they're over, and join the next one.
[02:01] <+GovindianMobileOperations> pengu i really need to go but inreally need to speak to you on skype please!!!
[02:01] <+Pengu> Like I said Gov, I can't make any promises.
[02:02] <
@Wintermoot> Oh yeah, when Crushita, Hannah, and I got into a game he got pissed because we didn't wait for him to show up to ask if he wanted to play
[02:02] <
@Wintermoot> So he made his own game and started spamming invites to us, demanding that we end our game and join his
[02:02] <+Pengu> Anyways...
[02:02] * Gadshack is now known as Gadaway
[02:02] <
@Wintermoot> In any case.
[02:02] <+Pengu> this discussion is becoming...well, can we just drop it for now?
[02:02] <+Pengu> I think everyone got out everything they needed to say.
[02:02] <+Pengu> for now.
[02:03] <
@Wintermoot> I just wanted to make clear that his behaviour is harassing and unwelcome, so I can have that for a court case if needed.
[02:03] <
@Wintermoot> *make clear to him
[02:03] <+GovindianMobileOperations> Pengu when are you free tomorrow if not tonight?
[02:03] <+Pengu> I don't really know Gov. I might go out for karaoke tomorrow, so I might not be free tomorrow.
[02:04] <+GovindianMobileOperations> will you be able to talk tonight? :-/
[02:04] <+Pengu> Gov, I'll be perfectly clear with you. I understand you wanting to vent to me, but this week in general I'm not for it. This is my week off work to relax, wind down, and release some of the stress that I have.
[02:05] <+Pengu> someone venting to me about issues around here involving other member friends of mine isn't a good stress relief.
[02:05] * +GovindianMobileOperations sighs
[02:05] <+Pengu> as much as I do like being there to listen.
[02:05] <+Pengu> It's just not something I really need right now.
[02:05] <+GovindianMobileOperations> great. so I can't talk to anyone then :-/
[02:05] <+Pengu> I'm sorry, Gov.
[02:08] * +Pengu lays down.
[02:09] <+GovindianMobileOperations> I'm required to care about other's feelings but mine aren't considered in anything :-/
[02:09] <+Pengu> ...
[02:09] <+GovindianMobileOperations> That's how i feel.
[02:09] * +Pengu refrains from commenting once more.
[02:09] <+Pengu> Actually no.
[02:10] <+Pengu> You say that, Gov. But that's exactly how you always make other people feel.
[02:10] <+Pengu> That they need to care purely about your feelings, and you don't consider theirs.
[02:10] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i try ti but they don't consider mine at all
[02:10] <+Pengu> ...
[02:10] <+Pengu> Gov.
[02:10] <+Pengu> You don't try hard enough.
[02:11] <+Pengu> You badger someone and attack them when you feel like your feelings aren't met.
[02:11] <+Pengu> And then when they disagree or don't respond, you blame things on them.
[02:11] <+Pengu> How many times have you called Wintermoot passively aggressive now?
[02:11] <+Pengu> how many times did you call me it during the revocation?
[02:12] <+Pengu> How many times have you said things like that to other people when they don't respond the way you want?
[02:12] <+Pengu> The answer is too many to count.
[02:12] <+Pengu> If you want people to respond to your feelings genuinely, you need to understand theirs and do the same.
[02:12] <+Pengu> and backing people into corners when they do something you don't agree with is the exact opposite of that.
[02:13] <+Pengu> You're making your feelings the top thing, and you're pushing theirs into the mud and stepping on them.
[02:13] <+GovindianMobileOperations> if someone talks to someone else about a problem theyre having with someone and hadn't made an attempt to speak with the person directly about it, it is considered to be passive aggressive behaviour. not an attack
[02:13] <+Pengu> No Gov.
[02:13] <+Pengu> When someone makes a snide remark masked as something nice, THEN it's a passive aggressive behavior.
[02:13] <+GovindianMobileOperations> .g passive aggressive
[02:13] <+Zaphyr> GovindianMobileOperations:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passive-aggressive_behavior[02:14] <+Pengu> when someone chooses not to respond to you, it's ignoring.
[02:14] <+Pengu> when someone responds to you honestly but not the way you want, then it's something else entirely related completely to you.
[02:14] <+GovindianMobileOperations> .wik passive-aggressive behavior
[02:14] <+Zaphyr> "Passive-aggressive behavior is the indirect expression of hostility, such as through procrastination, stubbornness, sullenness, or deliberate or repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible." -
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passive-aggressive_behavior[02:15] <+Pengu> And...you're saying Wintermoot has never been direct? His banning for four weeks because of behavior that he CLEARLY explained once more in here...is indirect?
[02:15] <+Pengu> Because that's the definition of being direct.
[02:15] <+Pengu> He laid it out right in here as to his decisions.
[02:15] <+Pengu> I laid it out to you right in my revocation and my complaints to you.
[02:15] <+Pengu> Others have laid it out to you when they have a problem.
[02:15] <+GovindianMobileOperations> ignoring is a form of passive aggressive behaviour. by direct I mean speaking to me in private instead of speaking to me in the channel and seeingeveryone seeing everyone react to it
[02:15] <+Pengu> And yet you pass them off as being passive aggressive.
[02:16] <+Pengu> Stop being so overly aggressive for once and balance yourself out a bit. The reason you see it as passive aggressive is because, as I said, you're way TOO aggressive, and it's intimidating and puts people in a corner.
[02:16] <+GovindianMobileOperations> talking about someone you have problems with to others instead of the one you have issues with is also considered as such.
[02:16] <+GovindianMobileOperations> i was raised in direct conflict resolution
[02:16] <+Pengu> No, Gov.
[02:17] <+Pengu> Because I know Wintermoot has tried talking to you many times about problems he has with you.
[02:17] <+Pengu> Just as others have as well.
[02:17] <+Pengu> But there comes a time when it becomes too much because you don't listen.
[02:17] <+tatte> your name is so long that each one of your messages clear the screen of my phone
[02:17] <+GovindianMobileOperations> You have a problem with someone, you go to them discreetly and resolve it with them. you don't blast itnout in public
[02:17] <+Pengu> Gov
[02:17] <+Pengu> Don't be a hypocrite.
[02:18] <+Pengu> You blast off problems you have with others in here all the time.
[02:18] <+Pengu> And then you tell others to take it privately?
[02:18] <+Pengu> That's like the problem I have with Chanku exploiting loopholes and then instantly pushing a case against someone else that did it.
[02:18] <+GovindianMobileOperations> look Pengu I said i needed to go. that's why i said I wanted to vent on skype :-/
[02:18] <+Pengu> It's being absolutely hypocritical.
[02:19] <+Pengu> And he knows it, because I've talked to him about it.
[02:19] <+Pengu> Then GO Gov.
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@Wintermoot> We're a region with problems lol
[02:19] <+Pengu> Lol
[02:19] <+Pengu> that we are.
[02:19] <+GovindianMobileOperations> ok Pengu please try to find time for skype
[02:19] <+Pengu> I told you, Gov.
[02:19] <+Pengu> I'm not going to go on Skype so you can vent to me.
[02:20] <+Pengu> The last thing I need to hear is you venting about other people on here, when I actually try to be friends with most of those people.
[02:20] <+Pengu> and considering I'm trying to get some stress relief this week, I REALLY don't need it.
[02:21] <+GovindianMobileOperations> well then who can i vent to, or what the hell can i do? I don't know any options I have
[02:21] <+Pengu> You'll figure it out Gov. You're a smart guy.
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@Wintermoot refrains from commenting
[02:22] <+GovindianMobileOperations> not in this area. I'm a fucking retard
[02:22] <+GovindianMobileOperations> good night everyone