Post #53143
December 17, 2015, 02:40:19 AM
Noticed this on the grommr newsfeed...like it read a lot of people's minds.
"When a person has an expectation that I will message them back. My advice? If you have one, you're going to be disappointed, often. And when you communicate your anger and frustration over not getting a response to someone, you come across as a crazy person. I, nor anyone, has an obligation to you. Yes, I realize how this sounds. But not everyone is always inclined to respond to "hi"s from people living all the way in Kentucky, or belly rubs from someone with a blank profile. Don't take it personally - sometimes life just gets in the way and people genuinely don't have time to catch up on messages, no matter how sincere or thoughtful. There is no need to then go on the attack of a person's character. I don't think I'm better than anyone on this site, but having an expectation that you'll get a response from me or anyone is just a waste of your emotional energy."