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  • There were various things recently, too. I shan't name names. I did have a hand in some of them myself.
    I mean I know there's been arguments and outbursts, but I guess I wouldn't say they were toxic...just a case of things getting a bit heated from time to time. I'd like to think everyone involved in those spats still thinks well of each other.


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  • There were various things recently, too. I shan't name names. I did have a hand in some of them myself.
    I mean I know there's been arguments and outbursts, but I guess I wouldn't say they were toxic...just a case of things getting a bit heated from time to time. I'd like to think everyone involved in those spats still thinks well of each other.
    A significant amount of UH drama happens behind closed doors these days if I'm not mistaken, on Discord DMs and such, so they might not be immediately visible... Or at least that's the impression I've gotten.

    Your hope is the same as mine though.
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  • Just saw what was in the Humble Monthly Bundle this month, pretty glad that I paused my subscription...I would have only been interested in trying out 2 games, and I'm not even sure I would have liked one of them. Saw that next month's featured CoD: Black Ops, so I paused it for next month too. xD

    A significant amount of UH drama happens behind closed doors these days if I'm not mistaken, on Discord DMs and such, so they might not be immediately visible... Or at least that's the impression I've gotten.

    Your hope is the same as mine though.
    I wasn't aware that there was drama going on privately...that's pretty disappointing if it's true. =/



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  • Typing up some thoughts on parts of earlier posts that I didn't get around to:
    I'm always a bit weary when someone says they're too busy with other stuff to do something.

    To be honest, I think people have a tendency to throw out that they're too busy because they feel overwhelmed or they would rather be doing other things with their free time. You wouldn't believe the people over the years who have told me they're too busy to do the bare minimum of their positions, but had dozens if not hundreds of hours logged on Steam playing games in the two weeks prior to them telling me that. For what it's worth, I don't think it's usually intentional. I'm not saying it's impossible for someone to not have enough time, but I'd bet if people really examined why they haven't tackled something they need or say they want to do, it probably has more to do with focus and motivation than literally not having enough time.

    I'm not above it, either...now that I realize this, I make an effort to truly examine why I'm not doing something I need or claim to want to do, but sometimes I still fall in that trap. I think I recently said I've always been too busy to learn how to RP or to write a story...the truth is probably more that those are things I'd like to do, but not enough to have ever dedicated the time and energy to learn/do them.
    I think those are all fair points, and it goes back to motivation and focus. As it so happens, I've been receiving a lot of material on time management lately, and one of the articles says this:

    Unless the person has extremely low energy, even the laziest people still find time to surf the web, play games or socialize with friends. A lot of lazy people aren’t really lacking willpower, just some motivation. Without a compelling drive, being disciplined just makes you look busy to outside observers when you really aren’t getting anything done. Laziness only becomes apparent because without a strong drive, slothful people stop doing just about anything not necessary for survival or enjoyment.

    Personally I don't think it's just about lazy people, but people in general. It could be that Chanku for example is usually on top of things in the UH because of her interest in legislative matters (seemingly no matter how obscure or dull they are, lol), her reputation as Wintreath's foremost legal expert, and her standing as the most involved member of the UH over the history of the region. But most people aren't going to have things like that motivating them, so what about the UH could interest or excite the people that are in it? That may be a more relevant question than merely asking how to make the UH more active.
    I think it's also important to look at this from a perspective of self-care, as something that must be actively managed and scheduled to ensure our individual well-being and prevent burnout. Things like socializing or participating in leisure activities are important to our health and should be prioritized when possible. On the other hand, even though it's volunteer work that we hopefully all find fulfilling for a community that we all enjoy, doing Wintreath duties/responsibilities is still work, or at least can very easily become work.

    Like you said, an important part of dealing with this is trying to find ways to make the activities we do here more engaging and fulfilling for participants. At the same time, I think we should also recognize that not all "free time" is the same and take that into account when addressing and managing burnout.

    (As for myself, I've found myself taking on many, probably too many, commitments and responsibilities in terms of RL extracurriculars/hobbies, and my academics and activities in Wintreath have suffered accordingly. At the same time, I think it's important to recognize that time spent on these activities is directly eating into important time for sleeping and mentally/physically recharging, which may be more important for in the long run, even for being in a better state to accomplish my more material goals in such activities. After all, if I felt the need to meet 100% of my responsibilities 100% of the time, I would have resigned my Thaneship last year, but as you may remember, you and others talked me out of it by recognizing that taking occasional time to myself and my other responsibilities would be fine.)
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  • I am just so burnt out from my job that I rarely feel like doing any actual work when I get home. It's not fair on anyone here, but it is what it is. I've forced myself through 3 terms of the UH, for example, but am probably not going to run for it anytime soon again.
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  • I think it's also important to look at this from a perspective of self-care, as something that must be actively managed and scheduled to ensure our individual well-being and prevent burnout. Things like socializing or participating in leisure activities are important to our health and should be prioritized when possible. On the other hand, even though it's volunteer work that we hopefully all find fulfilling for a community that we all enjoy, doing Wintreath duties/responsibilities is still work, or at least can very easily become work.

    Like you said, an important part of dealing with this is trying to find ways to make the activities we do here more engaging and fulfilling for participants. At the same time, I think we should also recognize that not all "free time" is the same and take that into account when addressing and managing burnout.

    (As for myself, I've found myself taking on many, probably too many, commitments and responsibilities in terms of RL extracurriculars/hobbies, and my academics and activities in Wintreath have suffered accordingly. At the same time, I think it's important to recognize that time spent on these activities is directly eating into important time for sleeping and mentally/physically recharging, which may be more important for in the long run, even for being in a better state to accomplish my more material goals in such activities. After all, if I felt the need to meet 100% of my responsibilities 100% of the time, I would have resigned my Thaneship last year, but as you may remember, you and others talked me out of it by recognizing that taking occasional time to myself and my other responsibilities would be fine.)
    It's true that we need to think on how to make the jobs more appealing and interesting, but it's still very much work...it's a responsibility that we volunteer to take on, and on that end I think it's more an issue with time and energy management, especially when you consider that there are some things that must be done and other things that can be put off if you don't feel like doing them. For example, Skrifa should be checking the forum for legislation to debate and vote on most every day, and that would rarely take more than five or ten minutes, but then things like writing legislation can be divided in parts and put off if more important things are happening.

    At some point I'd like to write a little piece on time and energy management for government officials. I think it'd be a big help. :)


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  • It's true that we need to think on how to make the jobs more appealing and interesting, but it's still very much work...it's a responsibility that we volunteer to take on, and on that end I think it's more an issue with time and energy management, especially when you consider that there are some things that must be done and other things that can be put off if you don't feel like doing them. For example, Skrifa should be checking the forum for legislation to debate and vote on most every day, and that would rarely take more than five or ten minutes, but then things like writing legislation can be divided in parts and put off if more important things are happening.

    At some point I'd like to write a little piece on time and energy management for government officials. I think it'd be a big help. :)
    It's definitely true that time/energy management are important for good self-care. In that sense though, I think we do need to think about how it's fine for people to prioritize mentally recharging activities in their schedule, even seemingly pointless ones like gaming or socializing, for the purposes of making sure they're doing well enough to pursue their commitments both here and elsewhere. Rather than shaming or pressuring people who do such things instead prioritizing direct work in Wintreath in their free time, perhaps we should be encouraging such activities as a budgeted and prioritized bit of time. This is especially true since different people will always see their work in Wintreath and how they prioritize it amongst their other commitments and "free time" differently.
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  • It's definitely true that time/energy management are important for good self-care. In that sense though, I think we do need to think about how it's fine for people to prioritize mentally recharging activities in their schedule, even seemingly pointless ones like gaming or socializing, for the purposes of making sure they're doing well enough to pursue their commitments both here and elsewhere. Rather than shaming or pressuring people who do such things instead prioritizing direct work in Wintreath in their free time, perhaps we should be encouraging such activities as a budgeted and prioritized bit of time. This is especially true since different people will always see their work in Wintreath and how they prioritize it amongst their other commitments and "free time" differently.
    I don't think calling people out should be the default response to a bit of inactivity, but I think it is called for in situations where it's dragged on beyond any reasonable explanation.

    The reason I brought this up to start with is because we were halfway through the UH term and we had members who hadn't as much as commented on anything since the Speaker election, even with the Speaker mentioning them and trying to get them to get involved in active legislation. To me, that goes beyond just being busy or having poor time management...that's just not really caring and can't be bothered to do it, which I think is so disrespectful. It's disrespectful to those who ran in the election and lost out to them, to those who voted for them expecting them to be involved, and to those who are active in the UH and doing what they need to do. At the end of the day, they committed to taking the responsibility when they decided to run for UH, and if a member has been around but hasn't been taking care of that responsibility for weeks on end for no good reason, it needs to be called out.

    Helping Skrifa (and the government in general) find ways to more easily tackle their responsibilities and making the UH more interesting are things we should definitely do, and I think will help in most cases, but if someone can't find the time in a month I'm not sure anything we do is going to help. At least if someone says something people are aware of the issue.
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    That's cool. Here's a few more. :P
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    How much do you love brown rice? :P


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