I want to be buddies
Also;
What are your thoughts on the LGBTQ+a community?
We can be buddies, mate.
As for your question, I'm straight as an arrow and I'm secure enough in my sexuality to not give a shit what other people do between each other with mutual consent. I'm also busy enough and concerned enough with my own life not to stick my nose where it doesn't belong. My nose definitely does not belong in people's bedrooms. If it makes both people (or more) happy and it has no incidence on me or anyone else that isn't involved in these consensual activities, do what you want. Homosexuals aren't trying to recruit me, or grabbing my junk in public places, so why should I care? Marry and be merry, adopt and be fulfilled, child.
Likewise for gender identification, if you don't think you're a male or female, just don't be and take the requisite steps not to be. It's your body and your mental health, if you feel so much better as the opposite gender then you have my full support. I would even date a M to F transgender person as long as she is post-op (meaning no penis, breast surgery optional especially with hormone therapy) and looks like a female (meaning boobs, no moustache or beard, wide hips, things that are promoted with hormonal therapy). That she had technically been a man in the past doesn't concern me, after all, she isn't one
now and I would be dating her
now, not 15 years ago back when she had a penis, and that's all that matters to me as an heterosexual person.
But stuff like
this or
this goes too far for me though. I'm all ready to accept people moving between genders but I don't think there are like 25 genders like the second page seems to imply. There are two genders to me, masculine and feminine, because gender in my opinion is inherently tied to biology. The rest is cultural and gender roles =/= gender, and since I don't believe in natural gender roles (ie they are defined by culture and can change), I don't believe in social gender. To me it is just personality.