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I also can't log back into the minecraft account of my friend to continue work on the server. Shucks.

Wait, so what happened? Did your friend change the password and refuse to continue sharing it or what?

I'm not quite sure, I haven't gotten a hold of him yet so for now production is stalled. For now. I'll update y'all once I get it all sorted out.

But until you find that one person, you can always have fun sexy times with others.

Agreed. And as someone who has been in a poly relationship I can tell you that in my experience it's just not worth it. There's always going to be one person who feels like they aren't as much a part of it. It took me two poly relationships to figure that out. I like my current set up. It's me and my man in the relationship and occasionally we'll bring in a third for some cuddles or more than that. And there was the foursome too but I can't go I to detail on that here.

I don't think I could be in a relationship like that, because deep down I'd be afraid that the other people involved loved each other more than they loved me...I'd probably end up being that person who feels they aren't as much a part of it. But on the other hand, I feel absolutely no pressure to get with anyone until I feel the right one has come along, and until then I'm more than happy with friendships with benefits.

I don't think I could be in a relationship like that, because deep down I'd be afraid that the other people involved loved each other more than they loved me...I'd probably end up being that person who feels they aren't as much a part of it. But on the other hand, I feel absolutely no pressure to get with anyone until I feel the right one has come along, and until then I'm more than happy with friendships with benefits.

I'll admit I'm that person who's always searching for love and falling hard and fast. It's in my nature to 100% right from the get go with everything I do. That and I don't deal with loneliness well. I have a lot of self esteem issues that I really struggle with and when I'm alone it gets in my head that I'll always be that way because theres so much wrong with me. And in trying to keep my past bfs happy I was willing to try it. But it just didn't work. I always felt the lesser. And it wasn't their fault. I just have issues. Long story short, I fall in love too easily and get used willingly if it means I don't have to be alone.

>.> I'm rather annoyed right now...

EDIT: explanation, as I realized I forgot that...basically I want to get a bank account so I can get a job or something and save the money in a somewhat safe place, buuuut I can't get a bank account because I don't have an ID...I can't get an ID without a SS card, I can't get an SS card without an ID...I don't have an ID...

I'll admit I'm that person who's always searching for love and falling hard and fast. It's in my nature to 100% right from the get go with everything I do. That and I don't deal with loneliness well. I have a lot of self esteem issues that I really struggle with and when I'm alone it gets in my head that I'll always be that way because theres so much wrong with me. And in trying to keep my past bfs happy I was willing to try it. But it just didn't work. I always felt the lesser. And it wasn't their fault. I just have issues. Long story short, I fall in love too easily and get used willingly if it means I don't have to be alone.

But is it really worth it to be used just to not be alone? Don't you think you deserve better than that?

I actually used to be like that, until I went through this long period of not having a SO that lasted years...cause you know, forever alone. It was tough at first, because I'd grown addicted to being the focus of someone's romantic attentions, and in a way I depended on it for self-validation, but over time I just had to get out of that. I had no other choice, really. =/

>.> I'm rather annoyed right now...

EDIT: explanation, as I realized I forgot that...basically I want to get a bank account so I can get a job or something and save the money in a somewhat safe place, buuuut I can't get a bank account because I don't have an ID...I can't get an ID without a SS card, I can't get an SS card without an ID...I don't have an ID...

Does the bank ask for a specific kind of ID? Some sort of proof of address? Birth certificate? Passport?

>.> I'm rather annoyed right now...

EDIT: explanation, as I realized I forgot that...basically I want to get a bank account so I can get a job or something and save the money in a somewhat safe place, buuuut I can't get a bank account because I don't have an ID...I can't get an ID without a SS card, I can't get an SS card without an ID...I don't have an ID...

Does the bank ask for a specific kind of ID? Some sort of proof of address? Birth certificate? Passport?

Photo ID. I don't have a passport anyway

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

I don't have an SS card, or if I do I don't know where it is. Oh well.

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

I don't have the card, I have my number.

Edit: To clarify I've lost the card.

You definitely need an ID and SS card to adult as an American.

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

I don't have an SS card, or if I do I don't know where it is. Oh well.

And you're an American? 

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

I don't have the card, I have my number.

Edit: To clarify I've lost the card.

That should be easier.  I think you just have to go to the Feds and explain that predicament

Wait no SS card?    Is that even possible!?

I don't have an SS card, or if I do I don't know where it is. Oh well.

And you're an American? 

Yes, yes I am. I at least know the last four digits in order to clock in at work.

I remember when I was in middle school and they used our socials as our computer passwords to get us to memorize them.

Hopefully they're not still doing that, lol. v_v